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Heather's Story
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48 Hours
Abuse
Secondary Abuse
Marriage
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Post Divorce
Advice for the Abused
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Heather's Story
About
Questions
48 Hours
Abuse
Secondary Abuse
Marriage
Divorce
Post Divorce
Advice for the Abused
Observations
About
Questions
48 Hours
Abuse
Secondary Abuse
Marriage
Divorce
Post Divorce
Advice for the Abused
Observations

Abuse

These are great examples of the covert, emotional, and psychological abuse I suffered. You will see it throughout my documentation.

I cannot understate just how damaging emotional abuse is. It’s psychological warfare.

The images below can be directly attributed to Confusion to Clarity’s website.

https://themendproject.com/why-victims-keep-silent/

https://kinderinthekeys.com/narcissistic-abuse-examples/?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjw-JG5BhBZEiwAt7JR69qaIdNlNs6iZq5t-CwkVZg_vQAbO6Zhn8wTj563ieCObQIqw-kDOBoCsY4QAvD_BwE

https://www.womenshealth.gov/relationships-and-safety/other-types/emotional-and-verbal-abuse

https://www.confusiontoclaritynow.com/blog/covert-abuse-tactics

https://www.choosingtherapy.com/malignant-narcissist/

Screenshot of a document titled 'Image Management' discussing a person who uses charm, praise, and service to gain trust, with a quote about being fooled and a description of manipulative behavior patterns.
Text excerpt discussing gaslighting and distorted reality, emphasizing how it causes confusion and negative emotional reactions, with a quote from the movie Gaslight (1944): "You're not going out of your mind; you're slowly and systematically being d
Page of text discussing emotional manipulation and communication in relationships, with examples of harmful behaviors and responses.
Screenshot of a text article titled "Playing the Victim" discussing emotional abuse and manipulation in relationships, with a quote about hurt feelings and blame.
Screenshot of a webpage with the title 'Accusing the Victim' in purple text. The page discusses the reversal of roles between victim and abuser, giving an example of a conversation where one person accuses the other, illustrating the concept of accus
A section of text titled 'Hidden Blame Shifting / Guilt Tripping' explaining emotional manipulation in relationships.
A page from a guide or article titled "Subtle Putdowns/Shaming" discussing body language and communication tactics used to undermine or manipulate others, including examples of negative comments and tone.
A webpage titled 'Circular Conversations' with a quote, an image of a spiral staircase, and paragraphs of text discussing how someone repeats unresolved issues and derails conversations, ending with an analogy about twisting things around to make som
A text excerpt titled "Denying / Minimizing / Rationalizing" in purple italics, discussing how people deny or minimize their actions and reactions in conversations, with examples of phrases and responses.
Text titled "Feigning ignorance, Innocence, or Confusion" explaining typical behavior of someone pretending to be unaware or innocent, including acting confused or forgetting important details.
A pink-haired woman with long hair covering her face, wearing a yellow sweater with blue wavy lines, with a gradient background transitioning from dark teal to purple.
Text explaining covert intimidation and sabotage techniques, with section headers in purple, on a light purple background.
A black and white photo of a person pointing directly at the camera with a serious expression, wearing glasses, with a blurred background.
Text discussing smear campaign tactics used by narcissistic abusers, including tactics to manipulate and undermine victims, with a quote at the bottom: 'Covert abuse reminds me of a time bomb doing a day job as an alarm clock.'